You know what he’d be doing if he had been undoubtedly over you?
Absolutely Absolutely Absolutely Nothing. He’d feel indifferent in your direction.
If he’s got strong thoughts about you – well, those strong feelings don’t come from nowhere. They come from lingering emotions about yourself.
He’s harming – because he’s messed up concerning the breakup. People that are hurting lash away in a great deal of various ways – however it all is due to the feelings that are unresolved got inside.
If he’s lashing down – offer him room. Nothing effective may come from engaging together with emotions that are negative and he’ll probably draw you into their negativity too.
Therefore if he’s raging, or bellowing, or expressing their anger – allow him. Don’t engage. Don’t respond. Don’t make an effort to turn their negativity into positivity.
The only path for him to obtain over their anger is when he does it himself – you can’t help him.