I called her once more and she confirmed theyвЂ™d came across during the event (he hadnвЂ™t said that during the right time). She threatened to phone the police and have now me personally arrested for вЂharrassmentвЂ™.
S he stated she had been вЂbeing sortвЂ™ in my opinion about me, which I guess werenвЂ™t very nice as she obviously could have told me a lot of things my H had said to her. I had been told by her i had been вЂdisrespectingвЂ™ her (ha!). I recently laughed and told her to f off (sorry). Nonetheless it simply broke my heart. Even though things are much better, we still donвЂ™t trust him and I also enter despair whenever I think about just what he could have shared with her about me personally. The ideas of him seeing her and lying for me over YEARS ( maybe perhaps perhaps not months) makes me personally ill, nevertheless. I will be forever searching for signs that heвЂ™s вЂdoing it againвЂ™ (I do realise i’m behaving in a really paranoid means in certain cases) also itвЂ™s unusual whenever we can certainly flake out.
What exactly is clear through the confrontation, however, is the fact that the relationship was just about one sided.